Summer's lease...

posted on: Thursday, 27 August 2015

I see people around town; mothers from school whom I haven't set eyes on since we broke up and they say they've had 'the most amazing summer.' My mind whirls back, trying to place the most amazing summer I have had. I struggle. Summers have been pretty good on occasion, but rarely do I use a word like 'amazing' to describe an entire season. I respond; 'it's been a funny old summer.' That's as close to the truth as I can get. Emergency dental surgery, one holiday laced with noro-virus, house move upon house move, more close-quartered family time than we know what to do with. Various logistical challenges. An impending sense of anxiety as September looms with my new life direction - a Masters degree. Not enough writing. A teenager and a ten year old. And did I mention the house moves?!


We left for Jersey in July, returned to a summer rental in a waterside village. We then moved home to our beleaguered house for a few nights whilst my husband criss-crossed the globe to do a three day trip to Hawaii (yea, really). We swiftly realised our house was indeed uninhabitable. There's nothing like lying in bed and imagining an abyss of dark, damp rubble beneath you (spider-infested). We went to Portugal to escape, to the place where we often spend our summer holidays, for nearly three weeks. 

Now I type this, we are 'home' but sitting in another rental, this time in another outlying village, not waterside but inland. There is still a week before school starts, not that I am counting. I think it's been the longest hiatus in my blogging career that has spanned over five years. Absence makes the heart grow stronger? Or indeed my small legion of readers might have simply given up and gone home.

So Portugal was an interesting experiment. Having been so many times before, we were forced to look at it with new eyes and try different activities to keep us entertained.  My daughter took a friend for some of it and my Mum joined us too. The weather was characteristically lovely and hot; unlike England which has been shrouded in rain and cloud all summer. A major topic of conversation amongst all inhabitants. 

I injured my wrist sea kayaking. I read 'The Narrow Road to the Deep North'. I felt awe at the power of words. My biggest daily decision was which bikini to wear. My husband and I endlessly discussed tiles and wall colours (white) for the house that is not yet built. My hair went crazy-blonde. We got the train to Lisbon and spent a day or two. We missed the puppy (who remains very confused due to multiple changes of location). We had deep family discussions about all sorts of random matters. We dissected what makes the perfect holiday. We reminisced and laughed and ate lots of grilled fish. We fought about the usual stuff; unreasonable demands and snappy moments. I considered again how parents who home-school must come from a  different planet to me. We bonded. We fell out. We laughed about it after.

And so here I am. It's nearly the end of August, the evenings are drawing in and a whole new chapter is about to start.

I've missed you. Hello.


7 comments :

  1. SOOOOOOO lovely to see a post from you, I will always be here....loyal til the end ;)

    Your summer sounds very busy. I don't know what makes an "amazing summer"....I do think however that on the first day back at school, all mothers feel obliged to claim that their summer was perfect/fabulous/etc. Pressure to have had the best a time....

    Home-schooling....not for all the money in the world!! Mainly because I believe that friendships at school & being able to socialise are essential....but also because I just would not have the patience, why would my children want to be stuck with me all day??!!

    I have heard that Lisbon is beautiful....you looked fabulous on holiday, Portugal clearly agrees with you.

    I never realised that your house renovations were going to be as major as they are turning out to be....wow!! I imagine it is driving you crazy!!

    My daughter was invited to Greece at the very last minute with her best friend - it didn't happen in the end but it almost definitely will next summer....more changes!

    And yes, a new chapter is about to begin, let's brace ourselves! Xx

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  2. I'm loyal too Lou …. and, there's no such thing as an amazing summer …. people lie !!!!!! haha
    The things that you have just written about are called ' real life ' and are all perfectly normal …… not perfect, not romantic, just normal !!
    Chin up and carry on !! XXXX

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  3. So good to have you back Lou! It has indeed been a strange Summer. I look forward to reading all about your Masters Degree and commiserate with you on the build! XXX

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  4. I have checked most days to see if you have posted...I've missed your lovely writing very much. Welcome back! In your absence I have requested to join your instagram. Kind regards, Amanda x

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  5. Good to have you back. All best wishes to you.

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  6. Love this post. I'm a firm believer in everything happens for a reason. And the excitement of fall is making me very happy!

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  7. Always loyal! Your posts, regardless of content always leave me with a whimsical pondering vibe- maybe the way you write speaks to me? Anywhoo! looking forward to more posts from you.

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