Wednesday, 21 September 2011

How does she do it?

Happy Wednesday...this week is sprinting by; I can not get over how much there is going on at the moment. No time to stop, so just to say this is what's happening here right now...

...more apples than I know what to do with; we have a glut in our garden orchard...

...after school football practice...

...puppy fun...

...and more puppy fun...
I went to see 'I don't know how she does it' last night with some friends. I read this book years ago and found it such an accurate depiction of my life it was almost disconcerting. The film plays out the whole working mother debate and at times when watching, my heart literally ached with the empathy I had for SJP's character. I found it thought-provoking, although the film itself was fairly average. Her handbag had a starring role (...and best supporting actress goes to the Mulberry Alexa!); it was in almost every scene and as I have one I spent a lot of time looking at it!

Interestingly the film has a different ending to the book...so I felt that the matter of working motherhood was entirely unresolved at the end! I guess I have to accept there will never be an answer to this one.


I have come to the conclusion that whether working mother or not, life has a frenetic pace. No matter whether I decide it or not, there is something about this time of my life that demands energy and resilience. Time for some peace and quiet?! Yes please...


7 comments:

  1. Welcome to life as a mother at home Lou! When people ask me if I work, I never quite know how to answer that...I don't but I do... I really hate that question!

    I thought of you the other day whilst reading the tweets at the Mulberry event at the London Fashion Show. I remember your post about your bag...and returning it for another. Alexa? Do you still love it?

    I saw one this morning that I really loved... Proenza Schouler PS1 Large leather satchel...in chestnut.. bag love...again :)

    Happy Days Little Sis!

    Big Sis :) xx

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  2. I have had a horrible headache for three days now...
    And I feel I am letting children job and home down and just trying to power
    Through it... Although I am sure it is nothing like the pain you feel ...
    I thought of you... Although we have never meet ... The blog world is so odd..
    But we r friends still in some weird way... P.s. I so want to see that movie good
    Or bad it's nice to know there are other moms that try to take it all on too...
    Not in a poor me look how much I have to do ... But oh hell ya I want to experience it all!!!

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  3. I'm actually not sure I want to see that movie. I'm struggling with the juggle right now, and I'm pretty sure it would hit a little too close to home. I'm doing everything very poorly at the moment. I'd rather see something very very far away from my own reality, you know? Interesting that working outside the home or not, life can be complete chaos.

    I do adore your apple trees! Apples from your own yard? Awesome!

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  4. Lou,

    Every time I see the ads for that movie I always think of you. Then I came here and read your post...I must see it. I've been thinking about how that balance may have to play out in my own life here in the next couple of years. If I would be so lucky...

    xoxo,
    Carrie

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  5. i'm reading the book at the moment for the very first time. but the film doesnt come out here until november! talk about behind the times!!

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